Reader reviews:
"Sets the finger on EVERYTHING I hate about living and being a woman in this prison that is society, with all its 'invisible' patriarchal structures. And the corresponding too-high expectations on women to work for free around the clock, both at home and at work."
"Very good and enlightening book that really highlights how inequality affects both parties in a relationship. I can highly recommend the book."
"An important book that everyone should read!"
"Spot on! Describes clearly and straightforwardly what causes stress in a relationship at home and between colleagues at work. Great to have short exercises after each chapter that partners can do together. I wish I had had this book when I got married in the late 60s. I will give it to my adult grandchildren who recently got married!!"
"So grateful I found this! It's so easy for the discussion to become heated, but now we have material for exciting and well-meaning discussions! THANK YOU"
"Packed with facts, references, exercises, and development. A bleak picture of (in)equality and occasionally uncomfortable reflections, but at the same time full of concrete tips, hope, and encouragement."
"A useful guide both at home and at work. The invisible work is also work, and it creates stress, pressure, and, in the worst case, bitterness."
"I'm sure that no matter how equal your home life is or how knowledgeable you are about equality issues, you can learn or take something away from this book. An incredibly important book everyone should read!"